In 2017, 22-year-old Sage Wilder led an energetic life working and taking part in high-level soccer. However extreme ache and lumps all through his physique led to a shock acute lymphoblastic leukaemia (ALL) analysis.
“I used to be comparatively match on the time, clearly with footy and coaching,” Sage says. “And it simply got here to some extent the place, every week or two previous to being identified, I felt a couple of pains right here and there. I simply form of pushed them to the facet as a younger boy does.”
“I went to the medical centre to get a blood check and a scan. That afternoon, the physician mainly identified me on the spot with leukaemia.”
“I guess both my mum and I went pretty blank, just because we didn’t see this coming. And we just kind of had to stay strong for each other. It was just hitting us what just happened.”
Sage had to put his life on pause to begin intensive treatment immediately. He often reflects on the importance of maintaining a positive mindset, not just for his sake, but for the sake of his family.
“Mentally, I was really positive from day one,” Sage says. “Because my mum and I were together at the time when I first got diagnosed, I knew I had to be strong for her. And doing that allowed me to keep a positive mindset. And throughout treatment, that really helped me a whole lot. So, for the first part of it, I was really good.”
But as treatment went on, Sage’s positive mindset was really put to the test.
“Towards the back end of treatment, that’s when things started to take a turn where I got bogged down and out due to the side effects of the treatment and the way my body was changing and adapting. But it was nice to see that light at the end of the tunnel.”
Doctors immediately began looking at the next steps for Sage, which involved a stem cell transplant thanks to a familiar donor.
“They did a global search but couldn’t find a match,” Sage says. “My sister was a half-match so she couldn’t donate, so they had the option of my mum or dad. We chose my dad as he was a closer match, and it was a great experience knowing that it was coming from him.”
In an allogeneic stem cell transplant, stem cells are donated to the patient from another person who is a genetically matched stem cell donor. This is usually a sibling with the same tissue type as the patient. Where no sibling is available, the parent is considered, usually they are a half match.
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“I remember him sending me photos on the day as well when he was hooked up to the machine, and we were having a bit of fun just texting each other. For him to put his hand up to donate was very special for me. I was very lucky that my dad was actually my donor.”
Shortly after his stem cell transplant in late 2017, Sage was given the ultimate birthday present when he was told he was in remission.
“I still remember the phone call on my birthday, which was lovely. Hearing the word ‘remission’ was just the best news. It was just a relief.”
From returning to work as a personal trainer and meeting his partner to becoming a father, Sage continued to go from strength-to-strength post-remission.
Despite doctors initially telling Sage he was unlikely to have a child naturally due to the effects of treatment on his body, his partner Milly broke the news that they were going to become parents naturally.
Some types of chemotherapy and radiotherapy may cause a temporary or permanent reduction in a patient’s fertility.
In women, some types of chemotherapy and radiotherapy can cause varying degrees of damage to the normal functioning of the ovaries. In some cases this leads to menopause (change of life) earlier than expected. In men, sperm production can be impaired for a while but the production of new sperm may become normal again in the future. However, there are some options for preserving a patient’s fertility, if necessary, while having treatment for leukaemia.
“It was amazing. I remember she was sitting on the couch when I got home, and I rushed to the kitchen because I was starving. She said ‘aren’t you going to give me a kiss?’, so I quickly rushed over and went in for a kiss, and she popped out the pregnancy test. I was on top of the world.”
In early 2023, Sage and Milly welcomed a healthy baby boy, Ziggy, into the world.
Nearly two years after becoming a father, Sage continues to thrive with his new family. In May this year, he and Milly got married, and he also returned to play rugby in the same month. They have also opened their own group training business called ‘Strong and Mindful Lifestyle’. Sage continues to visit a haematologist every six months to make sure his blood cancer hasn’t returned.
“[Ziggy’s] been simply superb. It’s been stunning to observe him develop and develop, and I feel being a dad too now, it’s simply the perfect expertise. Each week simply will get higher and higher and I couldn’t ask for extra actually.”
Closing in on seven years in remission, he usually displays on the significance of remaining constructive all through his therapy journey, and holding on to the hope that someday, issues might be higher.
“Having a powerful and constructive mindset helped me massively. It’s simply all about controlling your thoughts, and simply these constructive ideas which you can create inside your self. And I feel wanting into the longer term [thinking] what you’re going to do when you get out of this therapy, I feel that may be tremendous useful.”
If you need to study extra about Sage’s blood most cancers journey, hearken to the episode of the ‘Speaking Blood Most cancers’ podcast the place he joins host Maryanne Skarparis to share his story.